Saturday, February 20, 2010

singles VS relationships

this is a very interesting topic indeed. the hot weather is sort of inspiring...a little daydreaming wouldnt kill when u run out of life doing projects...

so this got me thinking...SINGLES...RELATIONSHIPS..which is better?! 

certain times being on 1 side, lets u enjoy its ups and downs...and sometimes u gotta switch side once in a while, to take a fresh air! =) unless ur above 30 n plan on settling down, i suggest u just stick to the relationship part will do :P

SINGLES, this road...aint all bad..u getta mingle without who's who's permissions, ur basically a free bird here, flying here n there.. though with flying aimlessly, u do  feel like finding a place to land but there isnt 1 destination for u to land. i've heard ppl told me they cant stay single, they've gotta find someone,because they cant bare knowing that there's no one to go back to in the end of the day. so thus they will always try to be in the relationship road. 

RELATIONSHIPS...now this one is a real sweet road, a road travelled by 2. it can be lovely and can be ugly at times. no doubt the drug of its loveliness is what drags most people to walk in it.its a magical fantasy.but when its problems become so dark ,it drowns ur soul...i think it can be described as a yin yang thing! to get the best of both, one has to really work to BALANCE the YIN & YANG!

i guess the other thing tht inspired me to pen this thought down was that a few days back, i had a call from a friend asking for advice on how to maintain a relationship, but sadly im no good at this road. imagine giving advice to someone when u know ur inexperienced.. i do feel bad for that friend, i hope he  would find some light in what i said,though it may not be much =) 

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